Sonder
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Sonder

In a city park I watch pigeons, protests, toddlers, and quiet rituals of care. Each stranger carries a life as vivid as my own. This essay reflects on sonder, the truth that everyone is living a full story, and why every kindness, no matter how brief, matters.

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What Fresh Friendship Is This?
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What Fresh Friendship Is This?

When my marriage ended, I stood in an empty social landscape. Slowly, through travel, late-night talks, and shared laughter, I rediscovered the extraordinary power of female friendship. These women became my foundation, reminding me never to sideline the friendships that carry us through every season of life.

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It’s Been A Month
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It’s Been A Month

It has been a month. I am learning how grief arrives in waves and in errands, in phone notes and in long walks. This is a small ledger of what helps right now: simple rituals, work done gently, letters saved, and the permission to keep going without pretending it is easy.

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